Featured Post: Self-Care & Embracing Cycles

“Which season of life are you in? A planting cycle? Harvesting cycle? A time to replenish your ground? What self-care can serve you best in this moment?”

Recent Self-Care Posts

Self-Care for Facilitating Conversations about Racism
Gracy Obuchowicz Gracy Obuchowicz

Self-Care for Facilitating Conversations about Racism

“Striking this balance of caring for myself and for others isn’t easy. It’s messy and imperfect. And yet, it’s needed now more than ever to meet the challenges of our time, like racism. Armed with self-care, I believe we can meet these challenges with awareness and work together to bring about authentic healing. Without a strong foundation of self-care to guide us, I fear we will get lost along the way.”

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Authentic Self-Care, Self-Management, & Wholeness
Gracy Obuchowicz Gracy Obuchowicz

Authentic Self-Care, Self-Management, & Wholeness

“Unquestioned perfectionism can profoundly affect our attitudes toward self-management. If we tend toward overachievement, we might cling to hierarchical structures and the sense of control they can give us. If we’re prone to procrastination, self-management might feel like a downward spiral toward decreasing productivity.”

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Self-Care & Embracing Cycles
Gracy Obuchowicz Gracy Obuchowicz

Self-Care & Embracing Cycles

“Which season of life are you in? Are you in a planting cycle? Harvesting cycle? Resting cycle? What self-care can serve you best in this moment?”

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Self-Care & Slowing Down Your Workplace
Gracy Obuchowicz Gracy Obuchowicz

Self-Care & Slowing Down Your Workplace

“A constant fast pace is hard on our nervous systems. When we feel we are in threat - as being rushed tells our bodies that we are - we naturally kick into a hypervigilant somatic response.”

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Self-Care & Feminine Leadership
Gracy Obuchowicz Gracy Obuchowicz

Self-Care & Feminine Leadership

“Feminine leadership is about a willingness to practice radical self-care through: listening to intuition alongside intellect, honoring the intelligence of the body, setting transformative boundaries around dysfunctional patterns, feeling the whole range of human emotions, and shifting into a growth mindset while slowly disabling their perfectionist tendencies.”

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Self-Care & Professional Self-Doubt
Gracy Obuchowicz Gracy Obuchowicz

Self-Care & Professional Self-Doubt

“Especially as women, we need to be practicing the self-care of asking for what we’re worth and advocating for our future professional growth. However, when these outer factors become almost the entire reason that we’re pushing ourselves so hard to excel at work, it becomes very easy to lose our sense of self in the process.”

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Self-Care & Managing Social Anxiety
Gracy Obuchowicz Gracy Obuchowicz

Self-Care & Managing Social Anxiety

“When we are willing to be seen by others, not just for our shiny, successful parts, but for the messier places where we struggle, we grow in exceptional ways.”

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Self-Care & Feeling Your Feelings
Gracy Obuchowicz Gracy Obuchowicz

Self-Care & Feeling Your Feelings

“Our emotional shortages act like holes in our self-care bucket. No matter how much healthy stuff we try to fill ourselves with, the true energy of self-care always seems to seep out.”

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Five-Minute Self-Care Practices
Gracy Obuchowicz Gracy Obuchowicz

Five-Minute Self-Care Practices

“We position ourselves correctly, gently build our energy and get ready for that moment when the damn is ready to break. These breakthroughs - both the little and big ones - are the gifts we give ourselves.”

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5 Simple Steps to Leading Better by Listening Better
Gracy Obuchowicz Gracy Obuchowicz

5 Simple Steps to Leading Better by Listening Better

“It’s natural to want to shield ourselves from criticism. However, receiving feedback — both the positive and constructive kinds — is essential for personal and professional growth. And we can’t receive feedback if we don’t listen.”

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selfcarefully (Thick Press, 2019) by Gracy Obuchowicz

selfcarefully is a “self-helpish” book about the power of authentic self-care care and it’s many necessary applications in our lives and our world.

Designed and illustrated by Maria Habib.